Ethical Polyamorist – IMPORTANT!!!! This does NOT mean I will play with any and everyone, fuck around, be your dirty little secret, etc. It simply means that I can and do date multiple people with each of my partners’ knowledge and consent, and they are free to do the same. While light play may happen at events if there’s chemistry or if someone wants a demo, heavy play and sex will only occur within my established relationships or with people I trust. If you’ve not been given said status, don’t even think about asking and certainly don’t suggest we “keep things just between us.” It ain’t happening.
Property – I’m already Owned, and have no interest in that changing. Do not ask about collaring me, owning me, or otherwise make noise about dominating me. Chances are very good that it’s not going to happen.
Submission – There are currently THREE people for whom I am submissive. James Gordon has earned his ownership of me through an incredible demonstration of competence as a Master and, more importantly, as a human being. The other person is my Mama, Miranda Jade, who has been a brilliant light of love, comfort, and acceptance in my world, earning her the right to anything and everything I have to give. Don’t mistake me bottoming in scenes for anything other than pure masochism. The third is a relatively new relationship and dynamic, but I’m excited to be starting this journey with him. TL;DR: If you aren’t my Owner or my Mama or my Sean, you aren’t my Dominant, and I won’t treat you as such.
Mother – I have a child (as in immature biological offspring – not the AB kind) and yes that means scheduling time out (for work or play) is a bitch. Wasting any of my precious and rare adult time by being a flake will get you firmly kicked to the curb without hesitation. No second chances. Also, don’t ask me to dominate or top you. My son is the only person with the right to claim that energy from me, and I have no interest in diverting it elsewhere. I do not want to own you or make decisions for you, and with rare exception, I just don’t feel like putting in the effort top you in a scene. I don’t have the time or the spoons for it at this point in my life.
I am a Silver Labrador. I fetch!
Heavy masochist – Just because I look sweet and delicate doesn’t mean I am, so please don’t tell me “Be careful what you ask for…” in a menacing tone. I know exactly what I’m asking for, and I don’t break easily. Implying otherwise is likely to get you bitten. Hard. And laughed at. Don’t get laughed at.
Evil fucking bitch – I get the giggles over seeing people hurt, bleeding, and tormented. Keep this point in mind when considering patronizing me, and when looking for sympathy. I’m more likely to be “helpful” than helpful in those cases…
Primal – Wrestling, biting, scratching, and rough play, in general, are a lot of fun and make up some of the basic repertoire in my play. I eroticize the touch, taste, scent, and sight of blood…especially my own when it’s making pretty paths across my skin and puddling beneath me. Bruises are fun physical reminders of a good time and beautiful marks of survival on my body.
Doll – I will always be prettied up to my best ability at events and I enjoy being looked upon as a desirable sex object. I like being admired and objectified. If you appreciate my efforts to look nice, feel free to let me know in polite (or not so polite) terms. That said, it is important to keep in mind that, like an expensive porcelain doll, you may only look and NEVER touch unless given explicit permission. I am very picky about being touched by anyone I (or my Owner) have not invited to do so, and can not be held responsible for breaking fingers, slapping faces, or cutting off genitalia.
Model – Yes, I do photoshoots professionally, and yes, I expect to be paid for them. You wouldn’t do your job for free, so why should I? Payment does not always have to be in cash, but if you are looking to do a TFP / TFCD, you’d better have a damned creative idea to convince me to put the time / work / gas / babysitting money for your project. http://www.modelmayhem.com/2977469
Pansexual – While I am Owned by a cis-man, it is not uncommon for me to engage in relationships with trans and cis women, trans men, androgynes, genderqueer, etc. I like what I like and I don’t really care whether it fits a specific definition or not, nor will I force a definition upon my partners just for my own comfort. I just don’t care enough to try to nail it down. Tell me your pronouns and I am happy to respect them and use them.